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She’s pretty sure her ass is none of his business…Domestic Discipline, #spanking

From Wife on the Lam, one of two stories in Domestic Discipline: Janelle thinks her husband forgot their anniversary (he’d planned to surprise her). Angry, she flies off for a luxury resort vacation by herself. Unfortunately, she’s being stalked at … Continue reading

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Ouch! Some real life backround used in writing Domestic Discipline

Many years ago a friend and I had gone camping at Yosemite National Park and decided to go horseback riding. We debated whether to book the two-hour ride or the half day one. We finally decided on the shorter one. … Continue reading

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On 23 years of marriage, banana pudding, secrets, and #spanking…

This month my husband and I celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary. We’ve been together for a total of 28 years. Also this month, I learned he loves banana pudding. After 28 years, how could I not have known this? I … Continue reading

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A dating, networking site for spankos…

I heard about DD Life, a dating site for spankos, about the time I was wrapping up Reasonable Doubts, the latest Rod and Cane Society domestic discipline romance. In Reasonable Doubts, widowed heroine Liz is faced with dating for the … Continue reading

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Guest post: Livia Grant on BDSM, infidelity and Wanting it All

I’m happy today to host Livia Grant with her debut BDSM novel, Wanting it All.  Livia tackles some taboos in her first book–I can wait to read it. Livia Grant is Feeling Like a Virgin By Livia Grant I want … Continue reading

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The best of times, the worst of times…on nighttime sex and nooners…

One thing I’ve noticed about erotic romances is that characters tend to engage in sex whenever the mood strikes them. Oh, they may procrastinate or resist for the sake of building sexual tension, but one factor that never seems to … Continue reading

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This erotic romance author’s (un)romantic marriage proposal…

Last week I mentioned that my husband and I were celebrating our 20th wedding anniversary and shared details of how we met. For your amusement, I’d like to reveal how my beloved proposed marriage. As an author, I should jump … Continue reading

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The kind of man I could go for…

It wasn’t love at first sight when I met my husband, but my exact thoughts when I saw him were: “That’s the kind of man I could go for.” I belonged to Toastmasters, a organization for people who enjoy or … Continue reading

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11 facts about my husband…

I’ve shared a number of details about me, but do you ever wonder about “Mr. Cara Bristol?” The man behind the author? Here are a few tidbits about my husband. He is the most competent person I know. A true … Continue reading

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Three things that will make a man happy…

I happened to catch comedian & radio/TV personality Steve Harvey on a morning talk show the other day and he said that it takes only three things to keep a man happy and satisfied: Loyalty Support “Cookies” (sex) I’ve thought … Continue reading

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