Pleasing your man… 10 ways to say ‘I love you’ to HIM…

Give your man a back rub

Many articles suggesting nonverbal ways to say ‘I love you’ seem suited more for the women wrote them. While a man might recognize the meaning intended in a candlelight bubble bath or rose petals strewn through the house, chances are those romantic gestures are not things he desires. It’s a woman giving him what she wants, the equivalent of a man buying his wife a power drill for her birthday.

If you want to tell your guy ‘I love you’ with a gesture that speaks to the male mind, here are my suggestions:

  1. A massage
  2. A surprise blow job
  3. Morning sex
  4. His favorite meal
  5. A free pass from a chore he would usually help you with
  6. Join him in the shower (warning, this could lead to number 2 or 3)
  7. Tickets to a sporting event he enjoys
  8. Keep him company at something he enjoys, but you don’t and would normally skip (ex: a boat show, a gun show, etc.)
  9. Touch him when you talk to him
  10. Dress up for him like it’s a special occasion, but do it ‘just because’

What are your suggestions for saying ‘I love you’ to a man? Men, feel free to ring in with what really pleases you.

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12 Responses to Pleasing your man… 10 ways to say ‘I love you’ to HIM…

  1. Tess says:

    These are all great ideas…and much more suited to REAL men than rose petals and bubbles;)

  2. houston_switch says:

    She could ask for or give him a good surprise spanking. Works for me…

  3. Great ideas, Cara. Thanks for the reminders.

    I’m a fan of the naughty text message. So’s my husband. 🙂

  4. Sue Lyndon says:

    Love these ideas, Cara. It’s amazing how doing one little thing to show our husbands how much we appreciate them can lift their mood.

  5. I will of course need a list of all those in “favor” here. But seriously, a great list and a man who is the recipient, certainly should think the world of. At least that is my humble opinion.

  6. I think my husband would be happy with the second one every time – but the others are all good too 🙂
    He’d laugh me out of bed if I started messing around with rose petals 😛

  7. I do #8 a lot. My husband loves to fish, but I don’t. I tag along and take pictures of whatever he catches!

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