When you read M/F erotic romance or erotica, what turns you on? Is your libido stirred more by focusing on the guy – what he looks like, what is being done to him – or by experiencing a vicarious thrill through the heroine – imagining that you are her, and you are the object of the hero’s attentions? Does her response stir your response?
Do you find it sexier when the heroine services the hero or when the hero services the heroine?
I try to provide both in the erotic romances I write, but I wonder…what do female readers prefer?